Questionnaire
1➝ It's okay that my partner drinks
Strongly disagreeStrongly agree
2➝ It's okay that my partner smokes cigarettes
Strongly disagreeStrongly agree
3➝ It's okay that my partner does softer drugs
Strongly disagreeStrongly agree
4➝ It's okay that my partner does harder drugs
Strongly disagreeStrongly agree
5➝ Do you believe in soulmates?
Not at allAbsolutely
6➝ How long do you wait to have sex when you start seeing someone?
Right awayMarriage
7➝ Expensive dates would be more fun
Strongly disagreeStrongly agree
8➝ If you do nothing for an entire day, how do you feel?
GuiltyGreat
9➝ I would go on a spontaneous trip, even if that meant putting off my responsibilities
NeverAbsolutely
10➝ It is more important to protect someone's feelings than to tell the truth
Truth firstFeelings first
11➝ I keep some 'friends' here at the university because they might be useful to me in the future
NeverOften
12➝ I want a family with ____ children
NoneMany
13➝ Social activism is important to me
Not at allVery important
14➝ I would consider my friends quiet
Very loudVery quiet
15➝ Would you rather be left at the altar or leave someone at the altar?
Be leftLeave them
16➝ People in positions of authority are usually right
Strongly disagreeStrongly agree
17➝ I generally like to take control during sex
NeverAlways
18➝ I prefer politically incorrect humor
Strongly disagreeStrongly agree
19➝ There is a place for revenge when someone has wronged me
NeverAlways
20➝ I always vote
NeverAlways
21➝ I say what is bothering me, even if it makes my partner uncomfortable
NeverAlways
22➝ Abortion should always be legal
Strongly disagreeStrongly agree
23➝ Some things are simply black and white
Never trueAlways true
24➝ The phrase 'I love you' is a promise
Strongly disagreeStrongly agree
25➝ I'm comfortable with my child being gay
Not at allCompletely
26➝ I'd rather surround myself with people who are...
SimpleComplex
27➝ I pay attention to what I eat
NeverAlways
28➝ Exercising is an important part of my identity
Not at allVery important
29➝ My partner can be 'just friends' with an ex
Never okayAlways okay
30➝ I can't go to sleep if my partner is upset with me
Can sleep fineCan't sleep
31➝ I go to great lengths to minimize my harm to the planet
Not at allVery much
32➝ Everything will eventually be explained by science
Strongly disagreeStrongly agree
33➝ I'm open to being in a non-monogamous relationship
NeverVery open
34➝ I would want my partner to share their location with me
NeverAlways
35➝ I would keep a gun in the house
NeverDefinitely
36➝ It's important that I make more money than my peers
Not importantVery important
37➝ I would end a friendship over differing political views
NeverDefinitely
38➝ I like to play games that involve disclosing intimate thoughts & feelings
Hate themLove them
39➝ If there were a red light, but no one was on the road, I would go
NeverAlways
40➝ Are you smarter than most people at the university?
Definitely notDefinitely yes
41➝ I do whatever it takes to get ahead
NeverAlways
42➝ I would be okay if I spent my life doing good for others, but did not receive recognition for it
Not okayCompletely okay
43➝ My friends often come to me for advice on their problems
NeverAlways
44➝ I would never stalk my partner's social media activity
Would stalkNever stalk
45➝ I'd rather stay comfortable than remain stylish
Style firstComfort first
46➝ I want to have an extravagant wedding
Simple weddingExtravagant
47➝ My partner should enjoy hanging out with my family, even when I'm not there
Strongly disagreeStrongly agree
48➝ My kids should attend private school
Public schoolPrivate school
49➝ No one can be truly self-made
Can be self-madeCannot be self-made
50➝ It's okay to speak badly of other people.. as long as they don't find out
Never okayAlways okay
51➝ I always try to sound eloquent even in non-academic conversations
NeverAlways
52➝ It is ok for my partner to have extreme crushes on celebrities
Not okayTotally fine
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